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Have you hit the “glass ceiling” so many times, it feels as if the top of your head is flat? Has your journey through the executive ranks seem to have stalled out? Are your dedication and hard work going unrewarded? Are you feeling underappreciated or misunderstood in the workplace? If so…welcome to The Club!

“This is THE place, where like-minded, executive-minded, forward-thinking women come to communicate—collaborate—and celebrate everything that it means to be a career-focused woman in a male-dominated work environment. This isn’t about ‘us vs. them.’ This is about us making a name for ourselves—taking a seat, and truly owning that seat, at the executive table—and doing so not as ‘clones’ of men, but as authentic, self-confident, self-empowered women.”

Amanda Blesing

2 x Author; Women’s C-Suite Mentor & Executive Coach; Founder: The She-Suite™ Club

Where empowered women empower other women. Because when women win, everyone wins.

5 Tactics To Bring Out Your More Authentic Leadership Brand

It’s exhausting when you feel as though you can’t bring your whole self to work.

Trust me, I know!

In my own quest to lead and succeed I developed a very proper persona to disguise and camouflage perceived flaws and weaknesses. And I’m not the only one. According to Deloitte’s inclusion survey, 61% of workers hide or cover aspects of their identity to “fit in” at work.

You may think that this helps you play the executive game but disguising your true self will only undermine your leadership journey.

When you don’t bring your more authentic self to work

  • People are slower to warm to you
  • You run the risk of coming across as secretive or insincere
  • Sponsors and champions are more hesitant to back you
  • You’ll tend towards downplaying your achievements and second guessing yourself
  • And imposter syndrome is lurking just around the corner as you are often worried about being caught out

The truth is your authentic self is the strongest asset of your leadership brand.

So what can you do? Here are 5 tactics to help uncover your more authentic leadership brand.

1. Audit, edit, and add to your brand vocabulary

Conduct an executive brand audit with people who are invested in your success. Ask 3 people for 5 words that describe you and your leadership brand. Compare these words with how you would normally describe yourself and see which words you’d like to adopt into your own vocabulary to describe yourself with.

2. Embody the brand you want to be

Reflect on what you want your brand to be in the future. Ask yourself:

  • How do you want to be remembered?
  • How are you being when you are at your most powerful?
  • What do you want your legacy to be?
  • What words would you use to describe the super confident, super successful version of yourself?

Then use these aspirational words as your inspiration.

3. If you’ve got it, flaunt it

Women in particular have a habit of downplaying their expertise. “Oh it was nothing, I was just doing my job, in fact the whole team was involved…. and did you notice the project nearly fell over last month? But we got there in the end.”

No more downplaying your input, expertise or achievements. Own your own awesome instead.

4. Reframe flaws to flawsomes!

While you’re at it, no more apologising for perceived flaws or failings. Reframe them to flawsomes instead. Just like Sheryl Sandberg reframed bossy to leadership potential, you can do it too. Every strength has a downside. Every weakness has a upside. You just have to see both sides of the coin. Instead of hiding your loud laugh, work out how to turn it into an asset!

5. Put your blinkers on

Stop comparing yourself to others. Your unique value proposition is just that – unique.  When you try to come across like someone else, you’ll undermine your pathway to authenticity and run the risk of feeling like the great pretender. Find your own voice, your own style, your own brand, and you’ll carve your own path more successfully.

“Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It’s about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen.”

– Brene Brown

With visibility and authenticity comes vulnerability

With visibility comes vulnerability and that’s amplified when we put our more authentic selves out there. However the payoff is that when we’re more authentic, we are more powerful and have far more impact. 

Doing this work to define your authentic leadership brand not only helps you feel more confident but come across more congruently as well.  Remember, the ‘gold standard’ of executive branded is proactive, intentional, future focused and strategic. When you add authenticity to the mix, it makes your value proposition hard to ignore.

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